Wedding etiquette can be confusing and some of that applies to the bridal shower, as well. Choosing the food for the bridal shower can be one of the most difficult parts of planning it.
Putting aside a portion of each paycheck for awhile can add up to a sizable savings that can be used for your wedding. One inexpensive gift idea is to fill a mixing bowl with a variety of kitchen utensils. Many bands that perform at weddings have a set list that is typically not as long as the list of recorded music that the DJ has on hand.
Also, keep in mind that those you invite to your bridal shower should also be invited to the wedding itself. If your groom is a sports fan, he is sure to enjoy a night out to a game. Although the original intent for the rehearsal dinner was to include those who are actively involved in the ceremony, the couple is free to invite any other guests that they choose to join them in the rehearsal dinner.
So, try not to schedule more than one tasting session on any particular day. No matter which way you choose to go, be sure to mail out your bridal shower invitations at least two weeks before the shower.